Friday, March 6, 2026

Series on Jonathan Edwards' Resolutions: Resolution #14

Rejecting Revenge

By Rooted Africa






















Jonathan Edwards had resolved to actively seek opportunities for generosity (Resolution #13) and to guard against pride in knowledge (Resolution #12). Now he addressed a common root of relational harm: revenge.
Resolution 14
Resolved, never to do any thing out of revenge.

In simple terms: Edwards resolved never to act from a motive of revenge—no retaliation, no payback, no getting even, no matter the wrong done to him. This resolution reflects the gospel's call to leave vengeance to God (Romans 12:19: “Beloved, never avenge yourselves, but leave it to the wrath of God, for it is written, ‘Vengeance is mine, I will repay, says the Lord’”). Edwards wanted a life free from bitterness, trusting God's justice instead of taking it into his own hands.Why This Matters TodayRevenge feels natural—someone wrongs us, and the impulse to hurt back rises quickly. In workplaces, families, friendships, or online interactions, resentment can fester into actions or words that dishonor God. Edwards challenges us: Will I respond in grace, or in kind? True freedom comes from releasing revenge to God.Applying Resolution 14 Practically
  • When wronged: Pause and pray: “Lord, I trust Your justice—help me respond in love.”
  • In conflict: Choose forgiveness or silence over retaliation.
  • In leadership or daily life: Model grace—don't repay insult with insult or harm with harm.
  • Habit: When revenge tempts, recall Christ's example on the cross (1 Peter 2:23).
Reflection Questions
  • Where have I recently felt the urge for revenge or payback? How did I respond?
  • What would change in my relationships if I never acted from revenge?
  • How does trusting God's vengeance free me to love others?
Edwards reviewed his resolutions weekly to catch vengeful impulses early. Regular reflection keeps the heart soft. Resolution 14 calls us to a life of radical grace—leaving justice to God and showing mercy to others. How might this resolution affect a current relationship for you? Share in the comments or on X (@kateyakli).
We continue tomorrow with Resolution 15.This is Day 14 in our daily series on Jonathan Edwards' 70 Resolutions.References for Further ReadingRooted in truth, growing in grace.

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