So I managed to convince you (or did I) a few articles ago that; clichés-- well some of them, are not very useful for your performance as they tend to have limiting effects. The temporary solution was to discard them or better still; avoid cliché thinking no matter how deep seated they are. But that is easier said than done and I totally agree so I have been working on a better solution based on the Uptimetrics® platform. There is always a better way of doing something; you just have to find it and find it is what we did at the CSD Africa. So here is what you do:
Turn the cliché upside down
Extract the useful information that
is hidden within
Reason the useless information into
something more useful
Three easy to practice to deal with
clichés. By doing this you actually correct (repair) the program (and
that is what is- a program) instead of trying to remove (uninstall)it. The
advantage is comparable to demolishing a house and building another one in its
place as opposed to modifying a house into what you want. So let’s see it in
action:
Your
parents have been telling you all your life that money doesn't grow
on trees and somehow you have
allowed it to sink deep into your subconscious and even all the way down to
your cells. And now you are acting it out before you get the chance to think
about it. Experts agree that such information gives you a limiting perspective
of money and negatively affect your relationship with it. (Look up money beliefs on the net.
You will be amazed at what will come up)
This Cliché
which in fact becomes a program in your mind (Mindapp®) is invoked every time
you have asked for money to spend on some trivia (bearing in mind that your
parent’s idea of trivia has never been the same as your own and that in fact
they have been wrong many of the times. Let’s face it, sometimes they abuse
their privilege to use such Clichés and the result is that you develop negative
emotions in relation to money.)
Turning “money doesn’t grow on trees” upside down will give us
Money does grows on trees (and this is not only true,
it is a super useful too)
Now reason your way to a positive end by answering the How (This is done with a tool
called PSR—Positive Speculative Reason). Well we do have such
things as cocoa trees that in fact produce cocoa that is sold for money. Actually
cocoa along with other plants are referred to as cash crops and those who plant
it do it as means of earning money- yep they
literally grow money on trees. The more cocoa trees you have, the more
money you have as the value of a cocoa farm is measured in money. But here is
the beauty of this idea: cocoa is not the only money making crop that grows on
trees. You will find (when you start thinking this way) that there are a
limitless number of trees that can produce money. By doing this you have transformed
a negative and limiting Mindapp® shrouded in cliché gear into a more a
productive one.
The first
thing to do is to find out what information you are running on. They range from
what parents and teachers have said repeatedly (sometimes whiles you are being
punished) to something you picked up from a book or from conversation with
friends or even people you admire. The sources are limitless and you might not
remember all of them at once but they are there. Fixing such
limiting Mindapps® improves your performance significantly as you are more
forward and open to more options. The more blind spots you remove by using this
method, the more options you open up for yourself and the more opportunities
you make available to yourself. Perhaps your blind spot with regards to how
trees produce money is gone. Feel free to look at trees differently from now
on- they do produce money depending on how you choose to think about them.
----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Mindapps®
are small applications that run in your mind much like the apps on your Ipad or
Iphone. Many of them like the malicious worms that crawl your computer have
been installed there without your awareness yet are determining what you
believe and shaping the way you behave subconsciously. If you have a belief or Mindapps® that’s you recognize as limiting,
send us an email at spidup@csdafrica.com
We might be able to help you.
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